Dear Catholic Parents,
Micah puts God's case before the mountains as witnesses: "O my people, what have I done to you? How have I wearied you? Answer me." Then the most concentrated moral instruction in all of Scripture: "What does the Lord require of you but to do justice, and to love kindness, and to walk humbly with your God?" (Micah 6:8). The Gospel: the scribes and Pharisees demand a sign. Jesus refuses - only the sign of Jonah, three days in the belly of the earth. Something greater than Solomon is here. This Monday morning, today's news asks the same question Micah asked: what are we doing with what we've been given?
📰 Quick Hits
1. Three US Service Members Killed This Weekend - 17 American Dead in the War
Two US service members were killed at Muwaffaq Salti Air Base in Jordan on Friday when Iran struck with ballistic missiles and drones - the first American combat deaths since March. A third service member was killed in Iraq on Saturday during disposal of unexploded Iranian ordnance. One service member remains missing; remains were found Sunday near the Jordan attack site and identification is ongoing. Four others were medically evacuated and have since been discharged. Total US military killed in the conflict: 17. Wounded: 430+. US Central Command has now completed eight consecutive nights of strikes against Iranian targets. Trump said of the deaths: "We hate to see it happen. It's in service to our country."
Faith Lens for the Home: Three families are receiving flags this week instead of answers. Do justice. Love kindness. Walk humbly. Ask your family tonight: "What does the Church teach about what makes a war worth dying in? Have those conditions been met here?" Then pray for the three service members by branch and location - Jordan and Iraq - and for the families who do not yet have names to bury. And pray for the missing service member whose identity is still being confirmed.
2. Fernando Mendoza Wheeled His Mother Down the ESPYs Red Carpet
Last Wednesday at the ESPYs, the #1 NFL draft pick - Catholic daily Mass attendee, son of Cuban refugees - pushed his mother Elsa down the red carpet himself. Elsa has MS and uses a wheelchair. Fernando pushed her the whole way, both of them smiling. The image went wide. No speech. No statement. Just a son and his mother at the biggest sports awards show of the year. He has said of her: "You taught me that toughness doesn't need to be loud. It can be quiet and strong." It was. It is.
Faith Lens for the Home: "To love kindness." Not to perform it. Not to announce it. To love it - which means to do it as naturally as pushing your mother's wheelchair down a red carpet because it would never occur to you not to. Ask your family: "What acts of kindness do we do when no one is watching - and are they the same as what we do when people are?" Mendoza's answer seems to be yes. Let that be the dinner table question tonight.
3. Usha Vance Gives Birth - VP Becomes First in Modern History to Welcome Child in Office
Second Lady Usha Vance gave birth Sunday to a baby boy, Alec Neel Vance - making JD Vance the first sitting Vice President in modern history to welcome a child while in office. The family said in a statement that Usha and the baby are healthy, and that their three other children, ages 4 to 9, are "overjoyed to meet their little brother." Vance, whose memoir Communion outlines his Catholic faith and vision for family life, welcomed the news on a weekend when he was also managing the fallout from his Joe Rogan appearance and the ongoing Iran escalation.
Faith Lens for the Home: "Walk humbly with your God." A baby arrives on the same weekend that two soldiers died in Jordan and the war your father has been managing intensifies. The child does not know any of that. He only knows he has arrived and he is held. Ask your family: "What does a new baby remind us about what actually matters? What does it tell us about God's timing that life keeps arriving even when the news is terrible?" Pray for Alec Neel Vance and for every child born this weekend - including the ones born in Iran and in Jordan.
⛪ Family Saint Spotlight
St. Apollinaris, Bishop and Martyr - July 20
Sent to Ravenna by St. Peter himself to be its first bishop. He was beaten and expelled from the city multiple times by pagan authorities. Each time he came back. He kept healing the sick, preaching, baptizing, and building the church - through beating after beating, exile after exile. He died from injuries sustained in his final expulsion, around 75 AD. He is one of the earliest martyrs of the Western Church. Something greater than Solomon was here - and Apollinaris kept bearing witness to it through every blow.
Ask at dinner: "St. Apollinaris kept coming back after every beating and exile. What does that kind of persistence require? Is there something our family has given up on too quickly?"
✋ One Simple Action
Say Micah 6:8 together tonight before dinner - out loud, slowly: "Do justice. Love kindness. Walk humbly with your God." Then name one thing each person at the table will do this week in each category. One act of justice. One act of kindness. One act of humility. Write them down. Check back Friday.
📚 Read More
- Three US service members killed - Jordan and Iraq: Fox News (https://www.foxnews.com/politics/two-us-service-members-killed-iranian-strikes-jordan-centcom-says) and Stars and Stripes (https://www.stripes.com/theaters/middle_east/2026-07-18/iran-attack-2-americans-kia-22299945.html) and Axios (https://www.axios.com/2026/07/18/iran-jordan-us-deaths-military-two-dead)
- Fernando Mendoza and his mother at the ESPYs: CatholicVote on X (https://x.com/CatholicVote/status/2078164896777195940)
- Usha Vance gives birth to Alec Neel Vance: NBC News (https://www.nbcnews.com/politics/jd-vance/usha-vance-gives-birth-fourth-child-rcna587805)
- St. Apollinaris: Catholic Culture (https://www.catholicculture.org/culture/liturgicalyear/calendar/day.cfm?date=2026-07-20) and Franciscan Media (https://www.franciscanmedia.org/saint-of-the-day/saint-apollinaris/)
What does the Lord require of you? Do justice - three families are waiting for their sons' names to be released. Love kindness - a man pushed his mother's wheelchair down a red carpet because it would never occur to him not to. Walk humbly - a baby arrived on Sunday while the war raged and did not ask anyone's permission. That is the whole of today.
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Deacon Michael Halbrook
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